Assalamualaikum =)
haiii!! did you follow the @terfaktab kat twitter? do follow them, sebab you may get lots of JK (jiwa kacau) answers, stupid-simple-prinsip in love or whatever, and..... matured style of love i could say. apa tak payah baca dah tau? tau, tau ampaa hebat, aku ja yang baru nak menapak ta teh, ta teh! ;(
so, comfort zone.....
this term i got from #terfaktab gak sebenarnya. someone asked them, "kenapa gf saya suka merajuk?" (lebih kurang lah). jawapan, "sebab korang dah move to comfort zone" (lebih kurang juga, takkan nak hafal terfaktab pulak kan? pft.)
and.... yes this make sense! aku pon rasa macam tu laaa. aku sendiri lah, orang yang aku senang gils nak merajuk is or no no are my family. pantang tak dapat sikit je apa aku nak, teros hentak-hentak kaki atas carpet, sebab kalo tak atas carpet kaki aku sakit satu hal, pastu kang sedih pulak dorang tengok aku kurang ajar. dengan adik-adik aku lagi lahhh. asyik nak menang, kalah merajuk. sebab apa? sebab aku tau, air yang dicincang takkan putus. i know i will be with them forever, and they too. so no wonder lah, kalo lepas balik dari rumah tu dia macam geds sikit. bukan geds apa, dia macam... emm gian diberi kasih-sayang? er.
orang kedua yang aku suka gils merajuk is, err are, kawan-kawan. yang ni pon..... aku pikir gak awat masa first sem aku gila boleh tahan whatever they do, sekarang macam susah sangat nak tahan? so come to the point, it's comfort zone. aku tau they need me and i need them too. so..... sebab tu lah. even i know merajuk semua tu buat dorang annoyed, still can't stop that. hey, isn't it make us more closer gak? isn't it?
orang seterusnya adalah.... emmm hatimanis kot. LOL. ini paling buat aku tersedar sekali. kira-kira sekarang dah setahun lebih la kiteorang KAWAN. dulu kan, kalo dia tak text, hati paneh tu wajib, tapi bila dia text cool dia senang jek. sekarang??? hahahaha. senang jugak, cuma dia macam ada laa silent therapy sikit. hiks! sebab we getting closer and i feel more comfortable with you and wish you too. XD
so bagi aku, dalam comfort zone ni laa measurement to success or failure in one relationship tu. masa nih akan lebih kenal each other. masa ni dapat tengok yang zahir and batin (oih, dalam hati count as batin jugak yer). masa ni boleh tengok mana ikhlas, mana tak. masa ni boleh tengok cara marah yang betol or main-main. SEMUA LAHH!
at this stage, kalo rasa can't bear, i would like to suggest or.... giving my personal opinion that just leave it behind. emm, part family tu can't la leave behind. alaa, mana ada family yang tak boleh terima family members dia kan? tapi untuk kawan dan hatimanis tu.
why leave it behind? bcs, what else to be wait? while you know them at the surface lah boleh blah je kalo tak tahan, but if more deeper? tak ke lagi sedih and terkesan?
perhubungan bukan bahan eksperimen, tapi kalo hipotesis dan konklusi daripada eksperimen tu dapat menyelamatkan masalah hati runsing+kecewa+tak tabah semua tu, why can't we used it kan? we not talking about a day relationship, it's a longggggggg relationship.
so use brain while going through with it. okay?
alamak dah nak almost 6am, nak balik! cemuih dah aih kat mcd ni lama-lama. tak dan nak conclude. but understood kan? okbai!
